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Question: How to treat someone who does not appreciate my kindness?


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Question: How to treat someone who does not appreciate my kindness?

The Master answers:

If someone stops moving along with you when you are working with people towards a commitment, let them be but do not give up on them. You may gently tell them to take a break from the commitment.

Forcing people to move on when they are reluctant is counterproductive. However, if you tell them that you have to move on without them, they might follow your footstep willingly.

Remember to keep an eye on them from time to time to check if they are catching up. Differences and conflicts among people are common, just be careful not to let them affect you mentally or get yourself caught in crossfire.